⭐THE EXPENSE OF DATING.⭐

Everyone romanticises the idea of being in a relationship. I mean, c’mon, everyone deep down craves that one person they have crushed on since childhood or someone they think could be the IT couple.

Everyone keeps talking about how amazing it is to be in a relationship, especially in your teenage years. Like, we have that one friend who keeps bragging about the dates and gifts their significant other has given them, and sometimes we might go into the dilemma of why aren't we getting anyone?

But don't let these ideas cloud your vision of the near future, which is the topic I'm going to be yapping about: THE EXPENSE OF DATING.

One may ask, what does she infer by 'expense'?

Am I saying that treating your significant other is, in a way, WRONG?

Or should I not give them the princess/prince treatment that they deserve?

NO.

Treating your partner, going on dates, and gifting them is not wrong.

But one needs to understand that for a teenager, it's pretty EXPENSIVE.

Yes, the gestures are sweet, but when you’re a teenager and you’re dating, you actually spend a lot of money, and I mean A LOT OF MONEY.

I feel bad for the guy, low-key, like why should the guy pay ALWAYS?

I believe that whoever initiates the 1st date should pay, or it should be 50/50.

And if the opposite person REALLY wants to pay and the other one knows that, they should at least have the decency to offer to pay.

Then it's on the person's choice to accept it or not.

Sometimes, I've seen MEN getting offended with the fact that the girl offered to pay.

I mean, is your male ego so FRAGILE that you are taken aback by the fact that your girl just wants to pay for the meal?

I mean, c’mon, it's NOT THAT DEEP.

I also feel that girls, as they typically like to receive this so-called princess treatment, so does YOUR MAN.

So, go occasionally buy him some flowers, plan a date, don't always expect your man to do the planning.

Your significant other also DESERVES TO BE SPOILED BY THEIR WOMAN.

If you're in your 20’s and you have a decent salary, then dating is no issue.

Everyone says that the "financial aspect" of a person doesn't, or rather shouldn't, affect their relationship, but sadly, it does.

Nowadays, the internet has created this unrealistic expectation of relationships that can be VERY EXPENSIVE.

So naturally, people have gotten influenced and now expect to be treated the same way.

Now everything is about, “Oh, is he giving me the PRINCESS TREATMENT that I deserve, or is he giving me the BARE MINIMUM?”

Looking and expecting all this from your partner is fine, but ask yourself: are you truly worthy of it?

Like what's so great about you?

" Umm I'm different !?!? '

Yeah, well, so is ⭐ everyone,⭐ honey.

What’s your point?

If you’re a high-valued person and you have done something that's truly impeccable, then it's fine.

But don't make yourself seem superior by putting someone else’s self-esteem down.

Also, you shouldn’t be demanding this, as the famous quote goes, “If he wanted to, he would.”

So if you need to be giving "dating advice" to your partner, you might as well stay the hell away from this relationship.

'Cause you're not correcting him to treat you better, but rather for his next girlfriend.'

Remember, you're dating someone not to get things off them or to prove that you're worth something, so stop making your relationships seem materialistic cause it's the other gestures and personality that should be more ⭐attractive ⭐than any other materialistic things.

That's all I wanted to say for today’s blog. Many might not agree, but again, that’s your perspective, and I’m not here to change it, but rather to voice my own.

Haha, that’s one good thing about writing anonymously — that you CAN say whatever you want, and that’s how it should be. Everyone has the freedom to do so, so we should just take the chance.

I've decided that I’m going to write at least 1 blog per month as my New Year's resolution.

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