RED FLAGS IN A RELATIONSHIP ( PART 2 )

Hey guys, as promised in my previous blog, I’ve returned with Part 2 of Red Flags You Need to Watch Out for in Your Partner.

I hope y’all enjoyed reading Part 1 and hope that y’all do the same with Part 2.

Today I will be discussing the remaining 11 red flags.

Let’s pick up where we left off.

12. Anger Issues

Who doesn’t have anger inside of them?

Everyone does, but it’s how you respond to it and how you control it.

If in the early stages you can see your partner getting worked up over small things, this is your sign to walk away from this relationship — because if they’re making a big deal out of little things, then just imagine when the real problems start.

If they are willing to work on their anger for your relationship, then sure, give them a chance. But if they are just going to sit back saying, “Oh, I have terrible anger issues,” and do absolutely nothing about it, then it just shows that you can only identify the problem and not find a solution to it.

13. Keeping Score

When you are in a relationship, you tend to do things for your partner out of love.

If your partner is going to keep tabs on every single mistake that you make and consistently bring the past up, then you need to watch your back.

They can also gaslight you during fights by saying, “Oh, I did so much for you, what have you ever done for me?”

If you really love your partner, you will want to fix things and be on good terms with them.

14. Silent Treatment

Notice who breaks the silence and reaches out after every fight.

If it’s you — even when you’re not at fault — then it shows that they have ego issues and at the same time take no accountability for their mistakes.

Don’t be a fool and fall prey to this.

Their silent treatment can go on forever and ever if their ego gets in the way.

If their ego is bigger than their love for you, then it’s going to cause a lot of relationship barriers between the both of you.

15. Friends with Their Exes

This is one of the most famous red flags one can ever find in a partner.

If they still speak with an ex, it’s your time to leave and GTFO of the relationship — because why would you still speak with your ex?

If you do, you’re either still in love or not fully over them, and trust me, maintaining that connection doesn’t help either.

It just shows that you can’t cut people off even when they are adding no value to your life.

There are so many people on this earth that you can become friends with, but you still choose to return to your old habits?

Being friends with your ex never ends well, and it’s advisable to stay away from them.

Also, a side note — don’t ever think of going back to your ex even if you think they’ve changed for the better, because if it didn’t work out once, it will never work out a second time.

16. Flirty 24/7

I get that you’re excited and in that honeymoon phase of your relationship, but know your limits.

Seriously, it’s so dismissing, especially if you are just one week into the relationship.

Flirting nonstop via texts, reels, and in person shows how clingy you can get when you are introduced to something new in your life.

17. Agreeing on Everything

People tend to do this at the start of their relationship — agreeing to things even when they dislike them, just because their partner said so.

In a relationship, you should voice your thoughts and emotions and be able to express yourself properly.

If you are going to agree on everything, this shows that you can be a pushover.

18. Rushing Commitments

If you just got into a relationship, don’t talk about settling down, getting married, or having kids with your new partner.

Give your relationship some time to grow.

Learn about your partner; get to know them on a deeper level.

Understand their behaviour patterns and how they respond to different situations.

See if you both are genuinely compatible — then think about all these future possibilities.

19. His Male Ego

Talking from a woman’s perspective, if the guy is going to constantly look down on his “dream girl,” as they say, it shows his narrow-minded mindset.

I think most of us have left that male-dominated society in the 1900s, so it’s best if we try to adapt to the Gen Z way of life in these types of situations.

Being a misogynist in today’s era is so ew.

Like, I’m getting the ick while typing this out.

Being overly misogynistic or feminist isn’t good. Gender equality should prevail till the world ends.

Like imagine your Gen Z boyfriend having the AUDACITY to ask you if you plan on working.

Moment of silence because HOW DARE YOU.

How dare you ask a girl if she plans to work?

Excuse me, but who do you think you are?

Just her partner — not her owner.

She ain’t your property, bro.

GO GET A LIFE, BRO.

You didn’t put her into school, give her education, or shelter her, so I don’t think you really have a say on whether she should work or not.

20. Being Homophobic

Being homophobic means you can’t accept people for who they are and can’t stand the fact that the world is changing.

It shows that you have a rigid mentality.

Like imagine your partner says he’s going to disown his child if they turn out to be gay.

Moment of silence for these narrow-minded personalities who live amongst us, cuz ew.

I’ve asked many people about this, and it came to me as a shocker — most of the girls were pretty chill with it, but the boys (let me say boys because they haven’t matured even though they are 18 years of age) said that they wouldn’t entertain such kids and that they would send them to therapy, beat the shit out of the kids, and other vulgar stuff coming from such immature little shits.

(My head still hurts from their vague answers, and I genuinely feel sorry for their future partners and kids.)

21. Future Mismatch

Imagine your partner says they want to retire by 40.

Lol, ISTG if my readers disagree on this with me, just log off my website because WTF?!

As Gen Z, we are more career-oriented and want to actually make a name for ourselves in the world.

We want luxury; we want comfort.

We can achieve this only by working and getting a job.

There are so many people who, for some reason, can’t work due to personal issues, and they still try their best to get some work done — and you’re telling me that you’re just going to willingly retire?

Hell nah.

People actually start getting proper salaries and promotions after the age of 40.

People aren’t crazy for working till their retirement age because they are mature enough to realise that no matter how much you may earn, it will never be enough.

These people who think they will have an easy life by retiring so early need to get themselves a reality check.

22. Not Goal Oriented

Personally, if my partner isn’t goal-oriented, I’m leaving.

Because everyone should have a goal.

It can be a personal, academic, or career-oriented one.

But have a goal — there’s no harm in having one.

You don’t need to be smart to have or achieve a goal.

And just by having a goal, you’re already halfway through towards achieving it.

And with that, I have officially finished writing about RED FLAGS.

I hope more than anything that y’all take it as informative knowledge that you can apply in your relationships.

It’s not the end of the world if things don’t work out between you and your partner.

Everything happens for a reason, and maybe this will help you get a better understanding of your likes and dislikes in a relationship.

So take what you can learn from and leave the rest.

I really hope y’all enjoyed reading it and perhaps it resonated with some of y’all.

I mean, at the end of the day, that’s the purpose of me continuing to write — so that y’all know that everyone is going through the same things, just with different subtitles.

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